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This novelist never apologizes for being human.
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Roxane Gay has always been passionate about telling stories and began writing at just 4 years old. As one of the only non-White kids in her class in Omaha, Nebraska, Gay mostly kept to herself. She turned to the world of literature to escape.
After experiencing a horrific sexual assault at age 12, Gay turned even further inward. She rapidly gained weight, hoping it would protect her against future attacks. A year into college at Yale, Gay dropped out and moved to Arizona with an older man she met online. Throughout that time she continued to write, but soon realized she would never succeed as a writer without getting serious.
At 25, Gay went back to school, got her master’s degree and began to pursue a real writing career. She launched the indie literary magazine Pank and began work on several novels and nonfiction books. In 2011, Gay’s wildly successful essay for The Rumpus titled “The Careless Language of Sexual Violence” positioned her as the voice of the new feminist movement and launched her career. Shortly after, her nonfiction book Bad Feminist made her a New York Times best-selling author.
Gay’s recent book, Hunger, is her most personal yet, taking a deep dive into her past and her experience living as an overweight person. Today she still struggles with being comfortable in her skin, but she’s also learned not to apologize for who she is. “It’s very freeing to stop beating yourself up just for being human,” Gay says.